Confidence is perceiving “Failure” as feedback
and learning from your mistakes
A new look at “failure.”
Learn why you should look forward to it, and how it can help you
ultimately get where you want to go.
“There is no such thing as failure”
When you read the quote above, what’s your reaction?
Do you think it’s untrue? Silly glass-half-empty stuff?
What if I told you that only you have the power to decide whether or
not something is indeed, a “failure?”
In fact, there are some individuals—highly successful people—who
believe the very word “failure” has no place in our vocabulary.
Let’s talk about why.
Opposite Day
As a kid, you probably played that game “opposite day.”
You’d play practical jokes on your family and friends and release some
passive aggression in the process of claiming “opposite day.”
It was great—you could call the cutest girl in the class “ugly,” and
then take it all back by simply exclaiming “opposite day!”
But, the end result is the same; you still would have acknowledged her
cuteness.
Well, let’s play the game.
What if today, failure really means success?
How can you acknowledge your success, even as you utter the word
“failure”? Well, you can point out:
a. everything that was learned in the process of getting to where
you are now—surely not everything goes to the scrap heap
b. that simply being able to recognize everything hadn’t gone
according to plan, or achieved the desired outcome (i.e. “failed”), is
in itself a positive outcome
c. that the specific path you took this go round, clearly wasn’t
the right one and so it has successfully been eliminated and will not
be repeated
d. that you’ll know to do things differently in the future
e. that the experience has enabled you to grow in some way
“Failure” is feedback
“Failure” can simply be a great way to get us to pause in the midst of
our process, and get some critical information to indicate that we may
need to change direction, try something new, continue our learning, or
shift our focus.
Imagine what would happen if we didn’t get that feedback, and continued
endlessly along the wrong path, toward the wrong goal, or without ever
learning a new approach?
The thought is pretty scary, isn’t it.
Failure then, can really be seen as positive feedback—information that
gets us back on the right track!
For, without it, we would surely be lost.
The key then, is to identify it quickly, and change direction, try
something new, or shift our focus.
Here are some tips:
Always have a clear idea of where you want to go and continue
to re-evaluate it as you move forward
Identify specific milestones or markers along the way, to let
you know you’re on the right track and celebrate each success
If something doesn’t appear to be working, or working fast
enough, don’t hesitate to try something new
Continually learn—from others with whom you work, seek out
experts, find others who may have traveled down a similar road before
And always remember:
“You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we
call “failure” is not the falling down, but the staying down”
“You NEVER fail until you stop trying”
“If you are not making any mistakes, you’re not really doing anything
with your life”
------
If you want overcome mental blocks to success, health and
wealth and achieve MEASURABLE success – then this is the program for you.
Use your mind power for success,prosperity and health
For less than 30 minutes per day of lying or sitting around
you can quickly and easily achieve a new level of
brain power... of peace and relaxation that you've
never experienced before… guaranteed.
Go ahead -
Use your mind power for success,prosperity and health
Friday
A New Look At Failure
Posted by Bianglim at 10:11 AM
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment